The top must always be the clearly masculine, dominant partner. Differences in physique should also be accentuated if possible. Gay sex Rather, a bottom should revere and submit to his man, and constantly be trying to please him. It is totally inappropriate for a bottom to try to command or control his top. It is very free, even though it is very natural. The bottom, having given himself entirely to the top, then receives from the top the top’s own maleness, which moves inside him over and over and ultimately releases inside him. But it is precisely *as a male* that the bottom performs this feminine act. This transference of male energy is the most beautiful part of male to male sex. This transference of male energy is the most beautiful part of male to male sex. It is totally inappropriate for a bottom to try to command or control his top. A top’s sexuality is masculine: expanding, entering, exploring, conquering, reaching outside itself, penetrating, discovering. But it is precisely *as a male* that the bottom performs this feminine act. Rather, a bottom should revere and submit to his man, and constantly be trying to please him.
